Traditions found

I would be lying if I said I didn’t have preconceived notions and with
that expectations of the traditions I would find in Africa. I imagined
all night ceremonies, ceremonies for beliefs that others might have
thought should have been long tossed aside. I can not detail exactly
what I though I would see and hear, but I was excited at the prospects
of such occurrences.

One of my complaints about changes in Africa, not that I am an expert
by any means, but I sense a loss of traditions that as a Peace Corps
volunteer, whether we outwardly admit it or it is deep down inside of
us, want to see.

For the past few months I have taken to running in the morning, and on
my way back home I always stop by and talk to a Togolese woman and her
little boy Assiz, and sometimes her husband if he is there. Yesterday,
just as I was about to take leave, we could hear screams and yelling
from far behind her house. It isn’t the first time I have heard
peculiar noises coming from a group of people.

One of the first months I was here I heard chanting coming down the
road after darkness had already descended, and my sister, Petra, told
me it was a group of people singing to stop the rain, which in June is
welcomed, but by October becomes a disturbance, causing roofs to cave
in and crops to go bad. In addition to chants is of course drums,
which are almost always beating in the distance, in most instances
celebrating a persons death—the louder and more constant the drums the
older and more important the person.

So my Togolese friend turns to me and tells me to wait to watch the
people go by, and as they past by chanting not in sorrow they carried
over their heads a body, strapped to a gurney made of sticks, and
covered with white cloth, with just its feet left to touch the open
air.

Death in Benin seems to always be glaring you right in the face,
whether it is the killing of a chicken with your own hands so you can
eat, a baby guinea hen falling ill and dying, someone stealing your
goat and killing it, only to find it was pregnant, a dog becoming the
casualty of someone’s motorcycle, an infant dying of malaria, a
husband dying of AIDS, or if you are lucky making it to old age and
dying in a peaceful sleep. These situations are real and there is
something to be said for a culture that takes death as such a natural
process, like breathing, which it is, and celebrating it, and it is my
believe it has always been this way.

So I suppose while traditions now are accompanied with cold Coca-colas
and beers, and people with cameras, and their cell phones, or t-shirts
that say, “I Kissed Your Boyfriend,” I feel grateful that the
principles that have always guided old traditions still live on.